
NJASEPS believes parents are the best advocates for children with disabilities. Since its inception in 1974, we’ve worked to provide accurate information and meaningful support to help parents do what is best for their children.
2026 – 2027 Parent Webinar Series
co-sponsored by The Alliance
These free Zoom webinars are created specifically for parents of children with disabilities. Please check this page regularly for updates and future workshops!
Presentation Title: The IEP Roadmap – Understanding Your Child’s Educational Plan
Date: Wednesday, October 14, 2026
Description: An IEP is the foundation of a child’s special education program, but the document can be difficult to understand. This presentation will help parents identify the essential parts of an IEP, understand the role of each team member, and recognize whether the plan meaningfully addresses their child’s individual needs.
Presenter Bio: Laura A. Siclari, Esq. – serves as Of Counsel to Parles Rekem, bringing over 20 years of experience in education law at both the K–12 and higher education levels. Her practice centers on representing students and families in special education and general education matters, guardianship matters, as well as in disciplinary and higher education proceedings across the country. In the K–12 arena, Laura has represented countless students in special education due process hearings, IEP eligibility and placement disputes, Section 504 accommodation matters, and disciplinary matters. She also has extensive experience handling issues of Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying (HIB), as well as high school sports issues involving the New Jersey State Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJSIAA). Laura’s practice also includes higher education advocacy, where she represents students in Code of Conduct proceedings, Title IX investigations, and disciplinary hearings at colleges and universities nationwide. She has become a trusted resource for families navigating the increasingly complex landscape of student rights in higher education. Laura also has deep experience and understanding of mental health and addictions law issues, particularly as they relate to minors and students, having served on various boards for over a decade in these spaces, and has translated that experience into her student advocacy work. A frequent writer and lecturer on education law topics, Laura has published extensively in the New Jersey Lawyer Magazine and has presented to parent and professional groups on special education and student rights. She is known for her practical, compassionate, and solutions-oriented approach, helping families achieve results that preserve both educational access and student well-being.
Presentation Title: From Testing to Services: How Evaluations Shape the IEP Basics
Date: Thursday, October 29, 2026
Description: Evaluations influence nearly every major special education decision, from eligibility and classification to goals, services, and placement. This presentation will explain how assessments should be conducted and used, what parents should look for in evaluation reports, and what options are available when the school’s testing does not fully capture a child’s needs.
Presenter Bio: Laura A. Siclari, Esq. – serves as Of Counsel to Parles Rekem, bringing over 20 years of experience in education law at both the K–12 and higher education levels. Her practice centers on representing students and families in special education and general education matters, guardianship matters, as well as in disciplinary and higher education proceedings across the country. In the K–12 arena, Laura has represented countless students in special education due process hearings, IEP eligibility and placement disputes, Section 504 accommodation matters, and disciplinary matters. She also has extensive experience handling issues of Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying (HIB), as well as high school sports issues involving the New Jersey State Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJSIAA). Laura’s practice also includes higher education advocacy, where she represents students in Code of Conduct proceedings, Title IX investigations, and disciplinary hearings at colleges and universities nationwide. She has become a trusted resource for families navigating the increasingly complex landscape of student rights in higher education. Laura also has deep experience and understanding of mental health and addictions law issues, particularly as they relate to minors and students, having served on various boards for over a decade in these spaces, and has translated that experience into her student advocacy work. A frequent writer and lecturer on education law topics, Laura has published extensively in the New Jersey Lawyer Magazine and has presented to parent and professional groups on special education and student rights. She is known for her practical, compassionate, and solutions-oriented approach, helping families achieve results that preserve both educational access and student well-being.
Presentation Title: When School Becomes a Struggle: Understanding and Helping Children with School Refusal/Avoidance
Date: Tuesday, December 1, 2026
Description: Getting your child to school can become one of the most stressful parts of the day for both children and parents. Whether your child complains of headaches, worries excessively, refuses to leave home, or experiences emotional distress related to school, understanding the reasons behind these behaviors is the first step toward helping. In this informative and practical webinar, Dr. Michael Selbst will explain factors contributing to school refusal/avoidance, including the impact of anxiety, stress, learning challenges, social difficulties, and family issues, and what parents can do to respond effectively. Participants will leave with evidence-based strategies to support their child, reduce conflict, build resilience, and work collaboratively with schools to promote successful school attendance.
Presenter Bio: Michael C. Selbst, Ph.D., BCBA-D, LBA-NJ – is the Executive Director of Behavior Therapy Associates in Somerset, New Jersey. He is a Licensed Psychologist in New Jersey and Pennsylvania, Certified School Psychologist, Board Certified Behavior Analyst at the Doctoral level, and Licensed Behavior Analyst in New Jersey. Dr. Selbst earned his undergraduate degree with honors in Psychology at the University of Delaware, and he was awarded a University Fellowship to Temple University, where he attained his Master’s in Education and Ph.D. in School Psychology.
He has expertise in the evaluation and treatment of clients who present with symptoms of anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, Asperger’s Syndrome, obsessive-compulsive disorder, mood disorders, oppositional defiant disorder, social skills deficits, learning disabilities, as well as family and relationship issues, parent training, and co-parenting. Dr. Selbst has extensive experience working with pre-school-aged children through adults, including expertise in helping individuals work through significant life changes and transitions. He has led numerous workshops, including at local, statewide, national, and international conferences. Dr. Selbst is co-author of the Behavior Problems Resource Kit: Forms and Procedures for Identification, Measurement and Intervention and the social skills curriculum, POWER-Solving®: Stepping Stones to Solving Life’s Everyday Social Problems, and the book chapter “Acceptance and Commitment Therapy” in A. G. Dempsey’s (Ed.) book, Pediatric health conditions in schools: a clinician’s guide for working with children, families, and educators.
Dr. Selbst’s professional interests and approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy/Training (ACT), Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and applying Behavior Analysis in his work with individuals, families, and organizations. He assists clients in increasing their psychological flexibility, making meaningful steps toward who and what is important to them. Dr. Selbst is a member of the following professional organizations: American Psychological Association; National Association of School Psychologists; Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies; Association for Behavior Analysis International; Association for Contextual Behavioral Science; New Jersey Psychological Association; and New Jersey Association of School Psychologists. He has previously served as a member of a Human Rights Committee for adults with developmental delays. Dr. Selbst also serves as a Volunteer Clinical Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School.
Presentation Title: Barred From the Classroom: Navigating School Clearance Requirements
Date: Thursday, January 14, 2027
Description: What happens when a school says a child cannot return until a medical, psychological, or psychiatric clearance is obtained? This presentation will explain parents’ rights regarding school exclusions, continued educational services, district-funded assessments, disciplinary protections, and the practical steps families can take to get their child safely and promptly back into an appropriate educational program.
Presenter Bio: Laura A. Siclari, Esq. – serves as Of Counsel to Parles Rekem, bringing over 20 years of experience in education law at both the K–12 and higher education levels. Her practice centers on representing students and families in special education and general education matters, guardianship matters, as well as in disciplinary and higher education proceedings across the country. In the K–12 arena, Laura has represented countless students in special education due process hearings, IEP eligibility and placement disputes, Section 504 accommodation matters, and disciplinary matters. She also has extensive experience handling issues of Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying (HIB), as well as high school sports issues involving the New Jersey State Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJSIAA). Laura’s practice also includes higher education advocacy, where she represents students in Code of Conduct proceedings, Title IX investigations, and disciplinary hearings at colleges and universities nationwide. She has become a trusted resource for families navigating the increasingly complex landscape of student rights in higher education. Laura also has deep experience and understanding of mental health and addictions law issues, particularly as they relate to minors and students, having served on various boards for over a decade in these spaces, and has translated that experience into her student advocacy work. A frequent writer and lecturer on education law topics, Laura has published extensively in the New Jersey Lawyer Magazine and has presented to parent and professional groups on special education and student rights. She is known for her practical, compassionate, and solutions-oriented approach, helping families achieve results that preserve both educational access and student well-being.
Association; National Association of School Psychologists; Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies; Association for Behavior Analysis International; Association for Contextual Behavioral Science; New Jersey Psychological Association; and New Jersey Association of School Psychologists. He has previously served as a member of a Human Rights Committee for adults with developmental delays. Dr. Selbst also serves as a Volunteer Clinical Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School.
Presentation Title: Effective Planning: Wills, Trusts, and Guardianship
Date: Tuesday, February 23, 2027
Description: Every adult should have an estate plan that includes a Will, a Power of Attorney, and a Medical Directive. For parents of individuals with developmental disabilities, estate planning is more complicated because parents want to provide for their children while also ensuring that children maintain access to means-tested government benefits like Supplemental Security Income, Medicaid, and services from the Division of Developmental Disabilities. Improper estate planning can jeopardize your children’s benefits. This workshop will explain estate planning basics, including a detailed discussion of special needs trusts as well as what to consider when appointing executors, trustees, and other fiduciaries. Attendees will walk away with a concrete understanding about how to provide for their children when they are gone. The workshop will also explain the basics of guardianship and other surrogate decision-making options, with an aim towards attaining the maximum possible independence for your child while preserving vital protections for important decision-making. This 90-minute presentation includes a Q&A for attendees.
Presenter Bio: Jared B. Oberweis concentrates his practice in estate and trust matters, guardianships, special education and adult services. Jared enjoys representing clients with intellectual and/or developmental disabilities to ensure their rights are protected. He was born in New Brunswick, New Jersey and is a graduate of West Windsor Plainsboro High School North. Jared was admitted to the New Jersey Bar and Pennsylvania Bar in 2014 after receiving a Juris Doctorate from Duquesne University School of Law. At Duquense University School of Law, Jared served on Duquense Law Review as a Senior Staff Editor. Prior to law school, he obtained a Bachelor of Science degree from University of Pittsburgh, graduating Cum Laude. Jared is the past President and current Vice President of the Board of Directors of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, Mercer County (NAMI Mercer). He also serves on the Board of Directors of The Arc Gloucester and Disability Rights New Jersey. He is a member of the Mercer County Bar Association. Outside of work, Jared enjoys golfing, cooking and traveling. He currently lives in Yardville, New Jersey with his wife, Lyssa, and their daughter and dog, Jax.
Association; National Association of School Psychologists; Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies; Association for Behavior Analysis International; Association for Contextual Behavioral Science; New Jersey Psychological Association; and New Jersey Association of School Psychologists. He has previously served as a member of a Human Rights Committee for adults with developmental delays. Dr. Selbst also serves as a Volunteer Clinical Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School.
Presentation Title: Tech as Tool, Not Crutch: Building Independence in Special Needs Kids Through Sensory-Based Learning
Date: Wednesday, April 14, 2027
Description: For parents of children with special needs, a child’s relationship with technology is complex . A communication app gives your child a voice; a visual schedule reduces morning meltdowns; speech to text reduces writing demands. But what happens when the tool becomes the only way your child can cope? When the tablet is the first ask in the morning and the last fight at night?
This webinar helps parents understand what their child’s nervous system actually needs to grow, regulate, and build real independence.
Drawing on over 20 years of clinical expertise in sensory integration and pediatric occupational therapy, Aubrey will walk parents through the neuroscience behind why screens feel so regulating for neurodiverse kids but at the same time so disorganizing. You’ll learn how to identify when tech is supporting development versus substituting for the sensory and motor experiences your child’s brain needs most and how to create a balance.
Parents will leave with:
- A framework for evaluating any tech tool through a sensory lens
- Practical, low-barrier sensory strategies to pair with or replace screen-dependent coping
- Confidence to advocate for a tech plan that supports a child’s growth
You will leave understanding your child’s nervous system well enough to take the first steps in giving them what they truly need to thrive.
Presenter Bio: Aubrey is the owner of Sensational Achievements and has specialized in the evaluation and treatment of sensory processing disorders since 2005. She holds certification in sensory integration theory and practice, with advanced clinical expertise in functional visual skill development and sensory-based learning disabilities including dysgraphia, dyspraxia, and executive functioning deficits. She conducts Independent Educational Evaluations in Occupational Therapy across 27 Connecticut school districts.
Aubrey presents four professional continuing education courses through Theramoves covering sensory supports, handwriting, intervention roadmaps, and praxis from a neurosensory perspective. She also offers an online course through PESI — Distracted and Disorganized Kids in a Digital Generation. In collaboration with Dr. Anthony Kardaris, PESI offers a Certification in Tech Addiction that includes Aubrey’s course materials.
In 2015, Sensational Achievements launched Body Activated Learning™, a framework helping parents, teachers, and professionals support neurologically diverse children by applying sensory principles to optimize the brain and body for learning. In November 2025, Aubrey published Uniquely Human: Raising Leaders and Creators in a Digital World — a guide for parents navigating the unique challenges facing today’s generation and sharing the five pillars children need to thrive in an AI world. When she isn’t educating or working with children, she spends her time with her Poochon Cooper and gardening.
2025 – 2026 Parent Webinar Series
Presented by NJASEPS and The Alliance
These free Zoom webinars are created specifically for parents of children with disabilities. Please check this page regularly for updates and future workshops!
Presentation Title: A Runway, Not a Cliff, to Transitioning to Adult Services
Date: Wednesday, November 19, 2025
Description: Are you feeling worried or overwhelmed about your child finishing their education and entering the adult world? While the adult service system is complex, there are many supports available to help you prepare for a smooth transition. With some planning, your child can have a runway to adult life instead of facing a cliff! Please join us as we review the transition process and share timelines, tips and resources.
Presenter Bio: Jennifer Boyle – Mom, Advocate, and founder of Good Life Consulting. Jennifer advocates for person-centered supports and legislative advances, helping people with disabilities live fulfilling lives of their own choosing. She is the proud mom of Sean, a joyful 22-year-old with complex medical issues and high support needs. And of Sam, a delightful 18-year-old college freshman who is on the autism spectrum. Jennifer has completed more than 750 training hours related to advocacy and transition to adult life, including the Boggs Center’s Partners in Policymaking, NJ LEND, Partners in Policymaking Advanced Training, and Charting the LifeCourse Ambassador Training. She has consulted to the CTC Academy’s Beyond Graduation Project since 2023, assisting families in learning about and preparing for the world of adult services. She served as SEPAG co-president for the West Essex Regional School District from 2021 – 2025, supporting the families of students with IEPs and 504 plans. She currently serves on the Governmental Affairs Committee for the ARC of New Jersey, the Advocacy Committee for the Supportive Housing Association of New Jersey, and the Community of Practice State Action Team for Charting the LifeCourse.
Presentation Title: Assessing Functional Life Skills for Individuals with Autism & Other Developmental Disabilities
Date: Wednesday, January 21, 2026
Description: The process by which we determine the supports needed to assist an individual throughout the various stages of their life can be a lofty one. This presentation first utilizes a broad lens to review critical components to consider and embed in programs and services. The following section will include a discussion on how to assess these skills and, finally, methods to assist in the instruction and skill acquisition in these areas.
Presenter Bio: Bianca Coleman, Ph.D., NCSP, BCBA-D, LBA – is a licensed psychologist in the state of New Jersey, Nationally Certified School Psychologist, Board Certified Behavior Analyst at the Doctoral level, and licensed behavior analyst in New Jersey. Dr. Coleman completed her bachelor’s degree from Rowan University in Psychology with a specialization in Child Behavior. Then, she received her master’s in Applied Behavior Analysis at Penn State University. Dr. Coleman earned her Ph.D. in School Psychology from Temple University. Dr. Coleman has extensive experience working with individuals presenting with developmental disabilities, disruptive behaviors, feeding, toileting and sleep problems, social skills deficits, as well as attention and executive functioning concerns. She has expertise in using evidence-based treatments to work collaboratively with parents to teach them behavior management strategies and improve functional and adaptive skills, and with schools to address classroom management and challenging behaviors. Dr. Coleman is skilled in conducting diagnostic evaluations, specifically of autism spectrum disorder, psychological, psychoeducational, and functional behavior assessments. She also provides assessment and consultation services to public and private schools regarding their programs for learners with autism spectrum disorders and behavior challenges. Dr. Coleman’s professional interests include applying Behavior Analytic strategies to functional based skills and behavioral concerns with individuals, families, schools, and organizations.
Presentation Title: Resilience for Caregivers
Date: Wednesday, February 25, 2026
Description: Caring for a child with special needs changes everything… your time, your energy, even how you see yourself. This isn’t another talk about “self-care” you don’t have time for. It’s a real conversation about what it means to show up, fall apart, and still keep going as a caregiver. You will be reminded that resilience isn’t about staying strong all the time; it’s about finding ways to refill your cup in the middle of it all. Together, we will explore simple ways to reset, breathe, and reconnect with the version of you that deserves care too.
Presenter Bio: Lena Suarez-Angelino, MSW, LCSW, is an international speaker, licensed clinical social worker, professor, author and burnout consultant for nonprofits, schools, and companies. Lena can provide services in both English and Spanish, both in-person or online. Lena is the founder of LIGHT Collective and Co., a place where you can holistically and effectively heal from burnout and begin your journey to let it go, here, today (LIGHT). Lena has been featured in over 40 publications and interviews. Additionally, Lena is a disability advocate for her son and founder of Central Jersey Special Needs Community, a place for caregivers and providers to connect and support one another.
Presentation Title: The Role of Assessments and Professionals in Out-of-District Placements
Date: Wednesday, March 25, 2026
Description: When a student’s educational needs cannot be met within their local school district, the decision to place them in an out-of-district program is significant and complex. This workshop will explore the critical role of evaluations, data, and expert input in guiding that process. Participants will learn how various assessments—educational, psychological, clinical, and functional—inform placement decisions, and how collaboration among professionals, families, and districts ensures that each child’s right to a Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) is upheld. Emphasis will be placed on understanding the legal and practical considerations in New Jersey, as well as strategies for effectively using professional expertise to advocate for appropriate placements.
Presenter Bio: Laura A. Siclari, Esq. – serves as Of Counsel to Parles Rekem, bringing over 20 years of experience in education law at both the K–12 and higher education levels. Her practice centers on representing students and families in special education and general education matters, guardianship matters, as well as in disciplinary and higher education proceedings across the country. In the K–12 arena, Laura has represented countless students in special education due process hearings, IEP eligibility and placement disputes, Section 504 accommodation matters, and disciplinary matters. She also has extensive experience handling issues of Harassment, Intimidation, and Bullying (HIB), as well as high school sports issues involving the New Jersey State Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJSIAA). Laura’s practice also includes higher education advocacy, where she represents students in Code of Conduct proceedings, Title IX investigations, and disciplinary hearings at colleges and universities nationwide. She has become a trusted resource for families navigating the increasingly complex landscape of student rights in higher education. Laura also has deep experience and understanding of mental health and addictions law issues, particularly as they relate to minors and students, having served on various boards for over a decade in these spaces, and has translated that experience into her student advocacy work. A frequent writer and lecturer on education law topics, Laura has published extensively in the New Jersey Lawyer Magazine and has presented to parent and professional groups on special education and student rights. She is known for her practical, compassionate, and solutions-oriented approach, helping families achieve results that preserve both educational access and student well-being.

NJASEPS’ Private School Placement Toolkit
NJASEPS’ Private School Placement Toolkit is a collection of resources and information to help parents better understand their rights and make informed and effective decisions about their child’s special education services.
NJASEPS Resources and Publications
NJASEPS also provides a range of publications and resources in support of parents’ important efforts on behalf of their children.
NJASEPS Speakers Bureau
NJASEPS also coordinates a speakers bureau to help parent groups more easily access experts on topics in special education. Call (609) 890-1400 for more information or to develop a training event for your parent group.
Parent Advocacy Virtual Workshop Archives
Presentation Title: Transition Planning from School to Adult Life: Accessing Appropriate Services for Young Adults with Disabilities.
Date: Wednesday, March 12, 2025
Description: As educational entitlements–and the funding that goes with them–come to an end, many young adults with disabilities continue to need services and support. In this workshop, participants will learn strategies to preserve special education services through age 21. They will also learn about SSI, guardianship and other legal strategies that provide varying levels of support and protection. Speakers will also discuss SSI, Medicaid eligibility and Medicaid Waivers, DDD, DVRS, day and residential services. Specific assessment and service planning tools, including the NJCAT will be reviewed. This 90-minute presentation includes time for a Q&A.
Presenting Firm Bio: Attorneys at Hinkle Prior Fischer & Oberweis, P.C., have over 70 years of combined experience providing specialized legal services to families of children and adults with a wide range of disabilities, and seniors. They have argued many of the precedent setting cases affecting individuals with disabilities in New Jersey and Pennsylvania.
May 9, 2023
Securing the Future for Your Child with Special Needs: Financial and Estate Planning
Featuring Paul Prior, Esq., and Don Brown, ChFC, ChSNC, CASL
Sometimes, it feels like there are more questions than answers: Who will make decisions for my child when I am gone? Where will my child live? Who will make sure he is happy and safe? How much money is needed for a secure future? Do I really need an ‘estate plan’? Join us as Paul Prior and Don Brown answer these and other tough questions. They will offer a reassuring step-by-step plan to provide quality of life and a lifetime of care.
This event is co-sponsored by The Alliance of Private Special Education Schools of North Jersey.
About our speakers: Paul Prior, Esq., is the brother of a man with autism. He is a partner with Hinkle, Prior and Fischer, a law firm specializing in disability law. Learn more at http://hinkle1.com, email Paul at paul@hinkle1.com, or call 609-896-4200.
Donald T. Brown, ChFC, ChSNC, CASL, has been in the financial services industry for 30+ years and has earned the Chartered Special Needs Consultant designation. Learn more at https://www.specialneedsfundingcoach.com, email Don at dtbrown@nlgroupmail.com, or call 848-200-7148.
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Donald T. Brown, ChFC, ChSNC, CASL
March 14, 2023
Extended School Year (ESY) Services and Compensatory Education: What Parents Need to Know
featuring Featuring Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq.,and Judith Weinstock, Esq.
Some students with disabilities need special education and related services beyond the traditional 180-day school year. Extended School Year (ESY) services can help limit skill loss and regression, teach social skills, build job and transition skills and more. In addition, some students may be entitled to compensatory education (“comp ed”) when services and supports in the IEP are not delivered in a way that produces benefits. Join us as Denise Rekem and Judith Weinstock describe these important services, and how to advocate for them.
This event is co-sponsored by The Alliance of Private Special Education Schools of North Jersey.
About our speaker: Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq., and Judith Weinstock, Esq., are attorneys in private practice at Parles Rekem, Attorneys at Law. Both focus on the representation of individuals with special needs and their families in the areas of early intervention, special education, transition and adult services, residential placements, guardianships, bullying and discipline. Learn more at https://www.parlesrekem.com, or call 973-564-0055.
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Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq.

Judith Weinstock, Esq.
October 11, 2022
When the Local Public School is Not Enough: Exploring the Need For An Out-of-District Placement
featuring Hillary Freeman, Esq.
What happens when the local public school cannot meet a child’s academic, behavioral or social/emotional needs? Join us as Hillary Freeman discusses topics including least restrictive environment; accommodations, modifications and supports in public schools; the full range of placement options; demonstrating the need for out-of-district services; researching schools; writing the IEP; and planning the eventual return to district.
This event is co-sponsored by The Alliance of Private Special Education Schools of North Jersey.
About our speaker: Hillary Freeman, Esq. is an attorney and national speaker in special education matters in the law. As the sister of a man with Autism, she combines personal experience with her legal training to help families advocate for services and supports. For more information email hillary@freemanlawoffices.com, or call 609-454-5609.
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